Not sure what to say. We (my wife and I) would NOT have gone if we thought we were head to a sex party. We went. I hung out in the house, and at the fire pit. I danced. I chatted with several authors, some tech leaders, some artists, some famous folks, mostly young and not-young entrepreneurs. I had, over the course of 6 or so hours, I had three glasses of wine, I think, and lots of water. I was — at one point-offered a joint. I took a hit (it was good). At 3am we left.
AND we saw no sex. None. Zero.